Letting go of fantasy that seeks to repeat trauma seems possible and reasonable as I gain understanding of how and why those fantasies were formed. I’m happy to trade them in for something more creative and life giving.
Hey Sam - your insights and examples and helpful questions in this article are really useful. … that my sexual fantasies tell a story in search of meaning and an ending
Having just processed abuse trauma, I can definitely relate to dreams telling me things. I have been reading my dreams to see what my body is telling me, amongst other things.
I always love reading your posts, Sam. It has just occurred to me that I need to buy your book. It is so nice to find a reasonable voice writing about unwanted sexual behavior.
Letting go of fantasy that seeks to repeat trauma seems possible and reasonable as I gain understanding of how and why those fantasies were formed. I’m happy to trade them in for something more creative and life giving.
Excellent article. Let’s be brave enough to be curious about our sin. Incredible insight.
Thanks so much Ben! Yes, yes, bravery with curiosity. The redemption of our dissociation.
Hey Sam - your insights and examples and helpful questions in this article are really useful. … that my sexual fantasies tell a story in search of meaning and an ending
Having just processed abuse trauma, I can definitely relate to dreams telling me things. I have been reading my dreams to see what my body is telling me, amongst other things.
I always love reading your posts, Sam. It has just occurred to me that I need to buy your book. It is so nice to find a reasonable voice writing about unwanted sexual behavior.
Hmmm, I thought I posted a comment....was it deleted? It was from the Chiron Return account
Yessir, I did. I don't let people promote things in the comments.
Ideas are things. Every comment promotes an idea.
My comment was on topic.
The "thing" you say I promoted was free. Related to the "thing" you are writing about.
So you stand alone in the world? If I "like" your post, it shows up in my personal feed. So you let people promote you.
And you could, of course, have said something to me.